When we wish to change our gambling habits, it can be useful to have a clear picture of the effects and consequences gambling can have on our lives. For that, we can use a tool that has been recognized: the decisional balance.

Reviewing our gambling habits

The decisional balance is a tool that can be used in many situations that require making important decisions: professional, personal, investments or any other big life changes.

When it comes to gambling, many important decisions, at many stages during a process of change, may be worth taking the time to think them through. Here are some examples:

• Am I ready to cut down or stop gambling altogether?
• Should I go to therapy?
• I am having withdrawal symptoms; how can I resist gambling?
• Should I seek help?

The decisional balance aims at comparing the benefits/pros and costs/cons of two situations:

• The status quo, meaning not changing anything and continuing as usual.
• Making a change, meaning changing one’s habits according to their goals.

« The person becomes more objective about their situation and takes some distance. They can then concretely see what is standing in the way of enacting change. »

 At first, it may be surprising to make a list of the benefits/pros of continuing to gamble. However, they do exist, and it is important to identify them.

« People would not use if there were no benefits to doing so » explains David Galipeau, Counselor at Gambling: Help and Referral. « But they may be in denial about the consequences. This tool helps to see the whole situation. […] The person becomes more objective about their situation and takes some distance. They can then concretely see what is standing in the way of enacting change. »

Example of a Decisional Balance

Below is an example of a decisional balance that could be done by someone wanting to stop gambling:

Thanks to this exercise, anyone wanting to make changes can clearly see:

• The life they can build without the negative consequences of gambling.
• The means to be implemented to alleviate various inconveniences.

Of course, it is up to each person to make their own list of pros and cons which may be different from the ones above. Their goals may be different as well: some people can use the decisional balance to stop completely and others to cut down. Here too, the pros and cons of each person will be different.

To do the decisional balance exercise, you can either download and print our model or simply do it on a sheet of paper.

The decisional balance is an exercise among others used to cut back or completely stop gambling. If you need help defining strategies for changing that are suited to your situation, please contact our team of counselors at 1-800-461-0140 or chat, bottom right of screen. It is free, confidential, and available 24/7.

Ce contenu a été traduit grâce au soutien du Secrétariat aux relations avec les Québécois d’expression anglaise